I’M MADE

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PROJECT – I’M MADE

…there’s room for everyone
TO EDUCATE NIGERIAN YOUTHS ON HOW TO MAKE A LIVING IN LOW- STANDARD LIVING ECONOMY-Despite the known and unknown strive of the government providing and creating jobs in Nigeria and especially in Lagos, it is no doubt the population of the growing youth exceeds the available number of jobs. Also, to reduce crimes and corruption which mostly arise from frustration and loss of sight, this project is dedicated into helping the Nigerian Youth to freely and satisfactorily start a life of their own. using the NYSC platform. These involves two categories.

CATEGORY A- SS3 STUDENTS
ORIENTATION ON CHOICE OF COURSE IN UNIVERSITY LEVEL
LECTURES ON NIGERIA JOB AVAILABILITY
TALENT DISCOVERIES
SELF DISCOVERIES
BRIEF LECTURE ON ENTREPRENEURSHIP

CATEGORY B – CORPS MEMBERS
TALENT CHOICE
LECTURE ON NEXT STEP IN LIFE
ENTREPRENEURSHIP TRAINING
JOB AVAILABILITY IN NIGERIA SCHEME
ENROLLMENT IN AT LEAST 20VOCATIONAL COURSES OF CHOICE-
• EVENT MANAGEMENT,
• EVENT PLANNING,
• MAKEUP/MAKE OVER,
• CAKES,
• PASTRIES,
CATERING,
• ACCESSORY MAKING (BEAD MAKING),
• MECH ENGINE,
• FASHION DESIGNING/TAILORING
• GRAPHIC DESIGNING
• PHOTOGRAPHY/VIDEOGRAPHY
• PRINTING AND PRESS
• WRITING
• HAIR/NAILS STYLING
• FURNITURE
• COSMETICS (SOAP/ CREAM MAKING)
• MODELLING
• and more
TIME-LINE
PROJECT LAUNCH – 1ST WEEK AUGUST
REGISTRATION OF PARTICIPANT – 1ST-2ND WEEK AUGUST
MENTORING AND NETWORKING – 3RD WEEK AUGUST
TRAINING – 4TH WEEK AUG – 3RD WEEK SEPTEMBER
CLOSING PROGRAMME – 4TH WEEK IN SEPTEMBER
FOLLOW UP AND ACTUALIZATION OF CANDIDATE – 2ND TO 4TH WEEK IN OCTOBER.

CERTIFICATE  AND STARTING KIT WOULD BE PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO PARTICIPATE AND EXCEL IN TRAINING, BACK UP PLANS AND FURTHER TRAINING WOULD BE PROVIDED AND ENSURED.
NEEDS:
SPONSORS ON EACH COURSE, FORMS FOR REGISTRATION, LECTURERS, A HALL FOR THE TRAINING, PROCESS, MONEY, PARTNERSHIP/SPONSORSHIP, NYSC APPROVAL, MEDIA, PRINT, ADVERT, BRANDED SHIRTS, WRITING MATERIALS, TRAINING KITS, TEAM LEADERS, TRAINING KITS, REFRESHMENTS, TAGS, ID….

MEMBERS

ADEBOLA MARYAM——–CORPS MEMBER——- @MADE_creations

i am glad that these great minds have decided to join hands with me in the strive to make Nigeria a better place for success breeding.

Sharon———————–@shazzy_berry—————– MAKUP ARTIST
Adeyeye Toba—————@otunba_tourba————-BRAND CONSULTANT
Haneefah Adam————-@ms_hanie——————creative designer/blogger
Oloriegbe Hussiena———@kiyahbunny1————– event manager
Adesanya Sawyerr———-@adesanyasawyerr———–
Akintunde Abisola———-@bisakin———————— make up artist
Agbosasa Babatunde——-@agbosasa_babs————— pasteries and chops
Monsurah Alli Oluwafuyi–@emmcrystal——————- brand analyst
Bello Mariam Biola———@mizzlebizzle1—————— model
Adeniyi Adeyemi———–@kneeyie————————- mentor
Shaji Folorunsho———–@bigfolly2003——————- printing and press
Ofure Ighalo—————–@ofureighalo——————— photography
Farooq Kolawole————@Pharooqumar—————— IT analyst
Abimbola  Ajani————@prettybembo————- Aso Oke and bead making
Otto Orondaam————–

George Damilola—————@damilolageorge1———-Graduate

Ahmed Mustapha—————@leckan_m——————Undergraduate

Mumuni ————————@darealNMexus————-Graphic Designer

Moses Maryam——————health and safety environment agent

Musa Nafeesah———————-teacher, child education

Olasheinde Olajumoke ————–

Sikaiye Omotoke———————@omoh_toke———— makeup artist

Thank you all for supporting this project, the project kicks off in JULY please kindly support with #M’ADE n twitter for a follow back and information on the project run, sponsorship and partnerships.

The team isn’t complete without a cosmetologist,event planner,furniture maker, caterer, videographer and Engineer. please contact me if you know any.

Father, Dadddy or Both?

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Good morning Blog-ville, how was the weekend?

I really should have posted this yesterday but i got so occupied, am so sorry.

Yesterday, June 17th,2012 was father’s day; HAPPY FATHER’S DAY.

It was a calling for me and many others as i noticed through their updates, tweets, Facebook messages and numerous broadcasts, i almost called my father or at least text him but then my ego or lets say pride wont let me, don’t blame me i learnt that from him. i love my father, no doubt, i miss him so much but not enough to let go of my ego, he though me that too. (karma.. lol)

Back to the topic, father-daddy-both; which are you? which do you have? which will you be? which will you have?

A father: is defined as the male parent or individual progenitor of human offspring

To father: a verb is to procreate or to sire a child from which also derives the gerund fathering.

Traditionally, fathers act in a protective, supportive and responsible way towards their children. Involved fathers offer developmentally specific provisions to their sons and daughters throughout the life cycle and are impacted themselves by their doing so. Active father figures may play a role in reducing behavior and psychological problems in young men and women. An increased amount of father–child involvement may help increase a child’s social stability, educational achievement, and their potential to have a solid marriage as an adult.

The above concluding that a father’s role is very important in a child’s life.

prayers for those who lost theirs and kudos to those who took their place.

Daddy is an affectionate, familiar term, form of direct address, or nickname for a father.

DADDY IS THE RESPONSIBLE, PROTECTIVE AND SUPPORTIVE ROLE OF A FATHER

This is where i am going, being a father doesn’t necessarily mean your are a daddy and vice vars a, usually there’s a misconception but truly a daddy is more daring, desiring and chilling than a father, a father sounds and is more forceful, like the only reason is to bring you to the world, of course anyone can be a father (if fertile or potent) but not everyone is or will be a daddy (be it fertile or potent) fatherhood entails the role of daddy-hood but most men have lost this in the trance of worldly views and ego.

Any man can be a father, but it takes a special mind to be a daddy- m’ade

A lot of fathers have become irresponsible and nonchalant, usually from hate of mother or just the natural sense of not caring, leaving their roles for another man or mostly the woman to handle forgetting the above said of how a child’s life is dependent on how he/she is being raised and believing that no matter what the child would home to them, contrary to this assumptions or believe many of them are at the loosing end, leaving child to waste away or having them struggle, molested by the new father or even being robed.

A father doesn’t always have to be there as we have late-father, absent-father, sperm donor, baby-daddy as the case maybe. A father’s love should be genuine and always forthcoming, there should be full sense of responsibility and remorse when he cant meet up, a father should be aware and current of the child’s situation. All these are and more are what qualifies him as a daddy.

A good father would not manage a company and let it crumble or govern a state with a heartless mind, let alone president a black country with black days and night, watch the video Michelle Obama made for Obama yesterday

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tz28tO2IIeM

All these starts from now, all the uncaring, nonchalant and heart act of treating people, handling situations and answering questions leads to the father in you, the father you will be and the father you possess. This is not one sided, this goes to both male and female.

You cannot and shouldn’t hate a child because of the mother, don’t marry someone you don’t want to see a child in, do not bring to this cruel world a child you will not be responsible for, because it is even a sin to be irresponsible, whatever becomes of your child, good or bad, you shall be accountable for by the almighty.

when a father gives to his son, both laugh, when a son to his father, both cry – William Shakespeare

It is a wise father who knows his child.  But maybe it’s a very wise child who takes time to know his father – Anonymous

A wise son maketh a glad father- Proverbs 10:1

He didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it. ~Clarence -Budington Kelland

The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him. Proverbs 20:7 

A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms when his hands are empty.  ~Author Unknown

These are the Muslim men I want my son to grow up to be like, and for your sons to grow up to be like — full of love, wit, compassion and generosity, with a deep respect for women, and a commitment to serving God by serving humanity.

As a Muslim father, I must shoulder an enormous responsibility, both fiscal and religious, and this responsibility is first encountered before I even have any children at all.-Hesham A. Hassaballa

Failing to provide for the children after divorce will not only get a Muslim father in trouble with the authorities, but he will also get into very big trouble with God Almighty.Hesham A. Hassaballa

lastly:
“All of you are shepherds, and you are all responsible for your flocks. The father in his home is a shepherd, and he is responsible for his flock…” The word in Arabic for “responsible” is mas’ul. This word also means “that about which one will be asked.” Thus, the tradition can also be translated as, “The father in his home is a shepherd, and he will be asked by God about his flock.”

THE WAKE UP CALL

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Good morning, at least there is something good about this morning, even though it might not be the same in another region but whichever situation we are, we should be grateful.

Let’s re-wind to about 40hours ago….

I was getting set with my friends and a cousin of them who just got in from the UK few days back, the aim was to show her the fun side of Nigeria, we were all looking fly and sexy. The gals in colorful dresses and the guy looking cool, ready to go storm the beach and have maximum fun. We were about leaving when i decided to update my status as usual, ..beach things.. Only for me to see about two updates saying there was a plane crash; to be sincere i wasn’t moved but then i decided to check twitter and that was all over my TL, I quickly asked a couple of people i know would have facts and they confirmed. I told the people around me in the house and they were so engrossed in the on-going match and no one paid attention.

We proceeded anyway, i couldn’t explain what was going through my mind. I was confused, sad, angered, disappointed, everything else but not excited. On the 3rd of June, 2012 a DANA AIR plane crashed into the streets of Iju-Ishaja at about 2pm with 153passagengers and 9crew members on board all these numbers are nothing compared to the numbers of lives and property lost in the past months due to terrorist attacks or accidents which all falls back to the Government as people already started blaming on twitter and every other social network.

At 4:50pm when i left the house, no local Television station was showing it, no media house was talking, no ambulance, no government parastatals at the scene, no help, nothing! And we hear rage and rants everywhere. I got to Elegushi beach and i kept wondering what if that plane crashed over my house, what if my friends are on that plane, what if what if, but my questions were never why.

I have grown to never question God for his actions, because he his merciful and all knowing, he will warn us and pet us. I am no better than the crashed, neither are you. But my anger is, why would this happen in this country, i am not wishing another country bad, my anger is why would a 29years old plane be allowed to fly? Why would there be houses and industries just around an airport, i might have not flown to many countries but research shows that many other countries have their airports very far away from town. Let’s agree the passengers boarded their coffin but are the ground men too living on coffins, am i walking on a ground coffin? Should i not sleep in peace because i live near the airport? Should i not transact businesses because my government is incapable? Should i live everyday as my last because by government is incompetent or because i fear God?

It has come to my notice on several occasions that life goes on after we are gone, no matter your status or figure, not minding what you have or have done, do people even have heart anymore, have we lived in a dark country with our black skin so much our souls are becoming dark, do we not cry anymore, no we not THINK anymore? Do we forget that DEATH is eminent and do we forget that there is an ETERNAL LIFE after DEATH where will would all answer to our DEEDS, this is not a matter of religion but a matter of compassion. Have you thought that your so-called cherish family could perish in a day or that one step you take today could be your last.

Let’s forget DEATH for a moment, since that’s certain, are we not ashamed anymore, have we not courtesy or fear, i was telling someone i felt bad because i had a dream δ day before about a plane crash but though i was hallucinating due to the Allied air that crashed in Ghana, this was the only reason my friend didn’t travel to Lagos that day(at least so he said) but whichever way, why would someone laugh at such things, i am not saying weep or feel sorry for me but do you ever remorse, another friend sent a funny broadcast as to

“U travel by road, A tanker will catch fire..by air, plane crashes..u sit in ur house,the plane will come and meet u, u go to church boko haram will attack u,u go by sea,militants will attack,u finally run to ur village,u r kidnapped..! No safe place in naija. Cotonue I see u=))”   just in-between the whole crisis as much has i tried to see sense in it, i couldn’t because of the last line and the sarcastic laugh symbol.

This is sad, we keep saying we are the leaders of tomorrow and we are not acting like one, you a graduate and cannot think of a good life for yourself, if your life ends, what the use of all the life you wasted? he that is DEAD is BETTER than he that is BORN. But BETTER than BOTH of them is he that NEVER EXISTED. We keep saying life is unfair but the fact that every human has to share the grace and pains of life is what defines the fairness of life.

What did the people at the scene do aside taking pictures, well at least they tried, but what about the fools that went there only to take pictures with the debris as background, what of those that took there time to compose unnecessary funny message just 24hours after the crash saying we need a little laugh. My dear brothers and sisters, what little laugh do we need?, when we do not have the basic amenities to a good life, when bombs from BOKO HARAM has become the norms to a particular elite, of what difference do the plane crash victims have to the past Bomb blast victims or is it that death now has class? If the FG had to declare 3days mourning after every incident/accident, won’t we be mourning every week? THINK! Its time to think, we shouldn’t be all about profits and fame keyword being ALL ABOUT we live life to survive and on this universe, its the survival of the fittest, nobody chose that.

Its a shame that what our fore fathers have worked for is beginning to collapse right before our eyes but what are we youths doing ? As we pray for our fore-fathers will our generation pray for us, we all updated our status and say #pray4Nigeria, how many of you actually did? . We all blame Jonathan and the likes, i am not sorry to say this is how they started, as bad sons and daughters, greedy friends and colleagues,incompetent class reps and SUGs, and the likes of us who know the right thing to do but hide in our abode, who keep quiet when we see bad planes and cars, who send worthless BCs but never take actions, who entered DANA Air to Uyo, Abuja, Lagos, Port Harcourt and saw or noticed something was wrong but didn’t deem it fit to send that broadcast then, you should THINK!

Ogundamisi said, he once sat in a plane with holes but never talked and prayed to grace and mercies of God just for safe landing, well he landed safe and i hope that plane never crash till they all banned. This is not a post to proffer solutions but to tell you that, weather you like it or not, this incidents are wake up calls; if not how come different people from at least every arms of the government ranging from, NUC, CBN, Ministries, Army, Military, NNPC, political parties and several business holders, people with different religions and faith, infants, married, just married, engaged, Ini the only child of her Old parent, Ibrahim the only hope of his father, the Chinese, Raju whose first trip to Nigeria brought his families and company sorrow. Please, let’s stop saying, let’s start acting! Nigerians are virus, so what we say or do spread fast, if you know or sense anything, just say. No government is ready to take care of us, its high time we joined hands together and save ourselves.

let it linger in the mind of those contractors, engineers, aviation managers, NCAA, MINISTRY OF AVIATION, DANA officials and ,many others involved that they have made a nation weep and they have dropped several heroes and hopes, let them know we might not know them by face but they will not rest or no peace for as long as the memory of June 3rd 2012 remains.

May God rest the dead, punish the cause, pray for Nigeria, and console their Families. AMEN!!

Gracias.

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