SEX

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Good evening everyone? How is the cold treating you, its not treating me bad but i wouldn’t mind some warmth around me, that’s why am chilling in my room under my duvet.
What are you doing to keep warm, whatever it is just remember AIDS is real and alcohol/smoking shortens life too.

My day was pretty cool, in fact this week has been amazing after several YES and NOs at the right time to the right person, a buddy of mine travelled back to his abode and i kinda miss his wahala but then i made new cool friends( story for another day). Recently, have been asked too many questions about my sexual life! Dunno why anyone would think i have one, but then let’s gist

SEX-At least for humans, this most basic act is anything but simple. As the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey put it, the only universal in human sexuality is variability itself. Within the universe of intimacy and pleasure that sex affords, however, there’s a lot of room for error. From the behaviour itself to our orientation, sex never fails to be a provocative topic. we can all come to at least one consensus: It’s why we’re alive today and it’s the first thing future generations depend on.

SEX-Soul Expressing Xcercise

SEX- free sex, business sex, compulsory sex, involuntary sex, voluntary sex and many more

Today i read something about exchange, another about patriotism and another about feelings, you know i still wonder what some men derive from having sex with a prostitute atleast i know the part of the prostitute who needs the money which is outrageous, am more astoned as to male-prostitute what on earth are they thinking? Anyway to the topic! SEX! SEX!! SEX!!!

The business sex is much more easy and understandable, you bargain for a particular goods of your choice which most times isn’t refundable, the only thing is you don’t go back to that material any more, but in a case where the business partner is good at transactions, then there could be subsequent patriotism. Usually, people think what they are engaged in is actually a free sex but trust me it isn’t free, especially when there is a bond/feeling/aspiring relationship, this kind of sex is the one that involves a lot of caring, dates, hangout, laughter and the likes just to entice the receiving partner, this type of sex on the other hand could either win or loose, in a respectable transaction where a guy has taken a girl on a couple of dates and after a particular drop off, requests a kiss and she says NO its almost impossible for the guy to lament on what he has been given because then its back to business, in this case he either keeps trying or backs down, which he’ll have to put all cost in miscellaneous column (laffs)

NOTe: this type of sex is usually expensive but worthy, stressful, and it requires a lot of follow up and caring, except in the world of today where almost every one is horny and guys don’t have to go to lengths to get laid, sometimes and even most times its been read on the horny-female and all they do is approach and man.

The voluntary sex, mostly occur between two friends of opposite sex, which mostly isn’t expensive nor free or cheap, its in-between the balance but usually pay the price of guilt for the person with no-guts, this kind of sex is usually sweet (so i heard) because you do not expect anything from the supposed-partner unlike the first two where something is expected in cash or kind, it doesn’t have to lead to a relationship and no one has to know either.

InVoluntary sex, is the one you have with someone irrespective of the status or age or colour and circumstance you just have as a result of hormonal discharge (pop known as KONJI ) i really don’t think people know the difference between konji and being horny, well that is it.

SEX in the compulsory world, happens to the married 😦 this duo are obliged to have sex, well to fulfil one of the points of marriage, production of a new generation, even my sweet God said ” go forth and multiply” aside from reproduction, in order to keep your partner from cheating or smiling due to an outside source, you need to keep an enjoyable sex steady.

But note: whichever SEX you are having, there’s always a price to pay. Monetary, spiritual, material, guilt, fear, L♥√ع, need, relationship, tHere’s always a price 😀

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lets just be fwends

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Can men and women be JUST friends?/Can men and women go back to being friends after dating/a relationship?

I just finished meditating. I meditate twice a day for 15 minutes each. I have made this part of my daily routine and have found the benefits of it to be amazing so far and I believe the more I practice the more benefits I will feel/see. I am rambling about this because I should be focused on my project but whenever I come out of meditation I always feel creative and inspired. The thoughts come rushing into my head.  This blog I believe becomes truer and truer day by day because I am able to open up more due to the lessening of stress I feel.

Anyhow, there wasn’t a significant point to that rambling except for my wanting to share. I believe feeling good can be infectious so I guess part of me wanted to put it out there. As far as the above question goes…hmmmmm…..well it is an age old one that is for sure. Can men and women be friends? Can men and women go back to being friends after dating/being in a relationship? Honestly, I really don’t know. I think most people would say yes but I am unsure.

In regards to men (guys) and women(gals) being just friends I do think it is possible. I also think though that a lot is dependent on the type of relationship the two people have. If a male and female spend a lot of time together, doing various things (watching games, going to bars, going to the beach, etc) I do believe at some point there is a solid chance that one will become attracted to the other. A part of me feels that we are built in a way that either draws us closer to someone of the opposite sex or pushes us further away (either because we aren’t attracted to them or because we are and we know it will never happen so we abandon the situation). There are very few guys in my life that I would consider close friends that at some point I did not feel an attraction to at some point. I have had a male roommate and I do look at him as a close friend  but when we first met and became roommates(at a conference) I admit that the thought did ponder my mind about a romantic or intimate relationship. I felt attracted to him but was unsure of what my feelings really were. I pushed the thought out of my head and I still have remained friends with him (the thought of being with him in any physical or romantic way now is not even a possibility) but at that time I realized I needed to keep my life separate in certain ways from his. I needed to focus more on me in order to not get all wrapped up in that kind of situations. So, yes, we are friends but there are boundaries I make sure to never cross. I guess what I am saying is that men and women can be friends but it usually goes along with more rules and regulations.

I can’t believe I am going to admit this (thank goodness I do not use names) but at one time, probably a year and a half back, I had a male friend that I would go to happy hour with and just chill with from time to time. It sounds kind of mean but he was kind of the guy I went to when nothing else was going on and I was itching to get out of the house. This guy is nice but we would not be compatible in the least. He is your stereotypical engineer nerd (yes he even says that about himself) and our personalities are soooooo extremely different. I am bubbly and silly and loud and he is more analytical and “know it all”. We are not a match even a little bit. Our personalities worked together in certain situations. One night we had a party and I admit that the alcohol was flowing. In a mere moment I found myself attracted to him. The thought of him being snuggled up to me in bed entered my mind. The next day I was in complete denial that I ever felt that. I kept telling myself that thought could not have possibly entered my mind. I know to this day I would never want to be with him but for a minute (or maybe for more than a minute and a few drinks) I felt it. I am telling you this because I believe at some point or another, if a man or a woman has a friend of the opposite sex there will come a time they will find themselves attracted to them( maybe that’s why my male friend’s girlfriends don’t like me- duh). I guess what matters the most is how that person reacts to that feeling. I believe 100% at some point or another my roommate considered me in some way or another. I am sure it was just a passing thought but I guarantee it was there. The good thing about us is that there is not a chance we would act on it because we have seen each other so much and know each other so well now that any attraction or romantic/physical possibilities has ceased. I feel like I keep contradicting my answer. See why I said I don’t know. :0)

What I do know (well what I believe, I can’t really say know) is that men and women being friends after dating/a relationship is very rare. The chances of a long-term successful friendship after being involved is slim to none(except they do not see). I believe that it is a form of regression if people try to be friends after being romantically involved. Obviously, if two people have been romantically involved then there is attraction there. Attraction doesn’t simply go away. If it does go away then I believe that there is a good chance you don’t even want to be around that person anymore. I think people need time to heal and explore themselves and potentially meet someone else when the time is right and maybe after enough time has passes then two people that have been romantically involved may be able to become friends again but I still have doubts about it.there was a time i tried bonding with my ex but Friendship was  not an option because i was too drawn to him romantically and physically and the idea of him being with another girl just tore me up. There was no way I could accept that. He said he believed he would seek me out after all was said and done with his breakup and who knows if that day will ever come but I realized that keeping him in my life right now was not going to be healthy for me…and most likely not for him either. I knew deep down that I would be constantly hoping that things would take a turn and he would realize that I was truly what he wanted and he would forget everything else and just dive in.

I finally stopped dreaming and realized I could not live like that. So, through my experiences, and in my opinion, I do not think it is healthy for two people to “try” and remain friends after a break up. I am not implying they should be arch enemies by any means but I do think that people need their space and time away from each other to regain their independence and their individuality. During those times is when you realize what is truly important to you and if a relationship ends like that then long-term was never meant to be. I may be a die-hard romantic and a dreamer but I truly believe that when it is right it is right…there won’t be a whole bunch of breaking up and getting back together, there won’t be the question of whether to date other people, there won’t be an issue of timing. When it is right, in my opinion, there are no questions and no doubts. A friendship later could be possible but I think initially is not the right time.

What do you think?

its been 3yrs Micheal!

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Music miss you Michael Joseph Jackson

Music miss you Michael Joseph Jackson

On the 25th of June 2009 Michael Joseph Jackson passed away. I remember the date clearly because i was on the sick bed, listening his songs and then i got a text from a friend “ur super music-man is dead! I felt a sense of loss because he created music to both critical and popular acclaim for most of his life. He was an enigma, a thing too incredible to be described on the pages of newspapers or magazines. Too few people can actually claim to understand Michael, but that’s part of what made him such a huge figure, almost a deity.
It’s easy to label people “the next…” but every so often there comes an artist so great, so different from the pack that it’s impossible to compare anyone fairly. Michael Jackson was that rare breed – a person so absorbed in music he failed in so many other ways – from paedophilia scandals to financial difficulties to extensive bleaching and reconstructive surgery to repair the damage, he was hounded by an all too eager press trying to find out all they could about the genius that was Michael Jackson.

Different people will remember him for different reasons, but the truth remains absolute – Michael Jackson was an incredible singer, songwriter and dancer. His songs have inspired other acts to take up music, and even today dancers are compared to him. The Ushers, Justin Timberlakes, Chris Browns and now Justin Bieber of this world all owe a huge debt of gratitude to Michael for giving them a template to base their careers on.
But today I’d like to focus on the music. The first three CDs I ever bought were Michael’s – Thriller, Bad and Dangerous. For that reason most of my favourite MJ songs are from that era (1984-1992) when i only 2.  Well, most people’s favourite MJ songs are from that era anyway. I say “most of my…” because it’s almost impossible for me to pick out one favourite MJ tune. When I’m heartbroken there’s She’s out Of My Life. When I’m reflective there’s Stranger in Moscow. When I’m angry there’s Give in to Me and Dirty Diana. When I’m happy there’s… erm… wait a minute. Now that I think about it MJs music wasn’t really happy after he grew up. Yes there is Don’t Stop Till You Get Enough, but for the most part there was a sadness that pervaded Michael’s music, a melancholy that crept into almost every track made after the Off The Wall album was released.
When it comes down to it there’s a track for every mood. There are tracks that make you get up outta your seat and dance, tracks that make you think, tracks to make babies to, tracks to scream to, tracks to be all self-righteously pissed off to, and tracks to just savour in any way you can.
Michael often said his favourite song was Smile, a song he eventually recorded for his 2005 HIStory  album. It quickly became my favourite song. It was written by Charlie Chaplin – like Michael a troubled, misunderstood genius. It’s one of those songs that you can sing when you’re sad to raise your mood, and it’s just as good when you’re happy, to make you think about those who aren’t smiling – who don’t have as much of a reason as you to be happy.
This brings me to the real reason why I wrote this. I’d like to know your thoughts on the man – What do you remember Michael Jackson for?

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my birthday in pictures and few words

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yeah, its past my birthday and am sorry am just posting but here they are:

mercy, she my friend from way back uni

dola, me and mercy

kraj and bro..

DNEXUS AND SHIFFY

MY BRO, CELEB

POET BOY- THE GREAT WRITER 😀

ICONX- MY MAN

but why is tha guy behind, staring like dah.

meeeeeeee

its all about me.this smile……..hmmm

I LOVE YOUUUUuuuuuuu

hawt gals came..

chilling

fabric care

what was he telling me sef, i was blushing sha

lanrejolly… i loff him small

them boyz-men

OPE!!!

AND THEN THE DANCING STARTED PROPER

HIGH ON ARA-BRYMO

GROOVING

THIS PINK DRESS THO rolling my eyes*

colleagues at work

my honorable boss – OBI EMETEROM

OGA WALE D

WORK FAMILY

THIS MAN EHNN

dont trust that face

lawyer tess and dami my loff

meet more people here: fabulous friends

mudi et Og

LA PIAS

my olfiz love… kee ya self :p

shengele babes

shes owing me bumbum >;o

fun! fun!! fun!!!

husband and wife……..

how low can you go?

very low!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

hawt gals!!!!!

i didnt want em to leave

bro wale n dami

IJOYA!!!

so tess can dance…hmmm

shaji is abt 2 fly.lol

professor see yaself

more fun and loving peeps

it was his birthday too

saydoh

lets go gaga

POSE FOR CAMERA

T&K OLOWU love em

YELLOW BUMBUM BOI

GCK crew……………..

TYNDE

GCK CREW2

WHEEEEWWW

CUDDLING

AMNESIA’S MANAGER- HES OVER NICE.

DRUNK MAN

CHICKSSSS

CAKE TIMEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

I HAD FOUR CAKES 😀

TNX MIMI ND DAMI

SPECIAL!!!!!

I LOVE EM DIE!!!!!

 

MY HOMMIES………

HUH?

VOTE OF THANKS

THANKS OF VOTE….lol

 

VENUE: AMNESIA. 57, OGUNLANA DRIVE- 07041845825

PHOTO CREDITS: OFERE IGHALO- 08037557709 2233AA0F

OFURE

 

THANKS FOR COMING Y’ALL AND THOSE THAT MISSED, NO WORRIES, WE HAVE MANY MORE YEARS TO GO……

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Osen touch makeover

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Sharon IzedonmI is a freelance professional Make up Artist, based in Lagos,Nigeria.graduate of History and International Relations in the lagos state university (LASU), Nigeria.

CEO “OSEN’TOUCH MAKEOVER”

She has been in the industry for over 4yrs and covers many areas in Nigeria She as done a lot of jobs ranging from Magazine shoots,Bridal Makeup,Billboards,Calender,Tv commercials,Runway Makeup,Private shoots,Tutorials and sales of Makeup Products(wholesale and Retail) et all With a continuing drive to excel in her profession, she is endowed with a natural sense of style and highly diverse creative ability.

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I’M MADE

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PROJECT – I’M MADE

…there’s room for everyone
TO EDUCATE NIGERIAN YOUTHS ON HOW TO MAKE A LIVING IN LOW- STANDARD LIVING ECONOMY-Despite the known and unknown strive of the government providing and creating jobs in Nigeria and especially in Lagos, it is no doubt the population of the growing youth exceeds the available number of jobs. Also, to reduce crimes and corruption which mostly arise from frustration and loss of sight, this project is dedicated into helping the Nigerian Youth to freely and satisfactorily start a life of their own. using the NYSC platform. These involves two categories.

CATEGORY A- SS3 STUDENTS
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CERTIFICATE  AND STARTING KIT WOULD BE PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO PARTICIPATE AND EXCEL IN TRAINING, BACK UP PLANS AND FURTHER TRAINING WOULD BE PROVIDED AND ENSURED.
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i am glad that these great minds have decided to join hands with me in the strive to make Nigeria a better place for success breeding.

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Bello Mariam Biola———@mizzlebizzle1—————— model
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Otto Orondaam————–

George Damilola—————@damilolageorge1———-Graduate

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Musa Nafeesah———————-teacher, child education

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Thank you all for supporting this project, the project kicks off in JULY please kindly support with #M’ADE n twitter for a follow back and information on the project run, sponsorship and partnerships.

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